About us

My Life is an innovative charity that connects people with their communities.

Our mission is to work in a person-centred way with people of all ages who may need support to achieve a good life. To enable people to feel in control of their own lives, have the emotional support to get through the tough times and have the information and help they need to work out their own solutions.

We offer an exciting range of Life Opportunities at both Thompson House in Standish and Leigh Sports Village, as well as Care Quality Commission registered care and support in the home with our My Life Support service.

My Life is about giving people a ‘hand up’ rather than a ‘hand out’. It is about recognising the skills, gifts and talents of individuals and using them to make a positive difference; preventing isolation and loneliness and giving people a sense of belonging.

With this in mind, we provide a range of life opportunities and support in the home, along with information, guidance, coaching, training and support in education, health, care, employment and planning for the future.

Our background

My Life was formally established in June 2012 by Caroline Tomlinson, who was involved in developing the early thinking around self-directed support and who was instrumental in co-founding In Control, the organisation that put personalisation on the map nationally. 

My Life was established as a result of a group of people with disabilities and their families wanting something different to traditional health and social care services, and wanting more choice and control over their own lives. 

Many had already experienced direct payments and had an understanding of what good support looked like, having been inspired by pioneers such as Caroline. They definitely didn’t want traditional types of ‘congregated’ services such as day centres, nor did they want to be isolated, lonely and overworked by doing everything on their own all day, every day. 

Hence My Life was born; an opportunity for people to live a meaningful life, to be active contributors to their communities and to have help to make all this happen. A place to establish friendships and relationships that would keep them safe for the rest of their lives.

Our vision is for people who need support to have a good life

Our belief is if we all give a little, we will all gain and grow together.

Our goals are based on the citizenship model:

  • Self-determination
    To have real choice and control, but understanding that the more choice and control you have, the more responsibility you need to take.
  • Direction
    To have a plan for the future, no matter what age you are.
  • Money
    To be financially secure by having a sustainable income and money for support.
  • Housing
    To live in the right environment, with people you choose to be with.
  • Support
    To have support provided in a way which makes sense to you.
  • Community
    To have friendships, relationships and be able to contribute to your community in a meaningful way.
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How We Are Run

My Life is a charity, limited by guarantee. We have a board of trustees and the day to day operation is overseen by Caroline Tomlinson, our CEO. The board of trustees give their time free to My Life which has enabled it to become a self-sustainable organisation.

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Business plan

You can find out more about My Life, our vision, values and aims in our latest business plan; as we grow as an organisation we continuously review and redesign our systems and services so we can provide high quality and consistent care for as many people as possible. 

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Where we are

Our two centres are based in Standish and Leigh, although we support people across the North West, from Burscough to Burnley, Preston to Rochdale. We're within easy travelling distance of anywhere in Greater Manchester, Lancashire, Merseyside and North Cheshire

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How to join our community

Most people come to My Life funded by a directly commissioned health or social care budget or by using a direct payment, although we can cater for students if the LEA agrees to fund a place - and we help people funded from personal resources. Whatever your support needs, all our staff are fully trained and matched.

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Safeguarding and quality assurance

Our team and volunteers all have one aim in mind, to help our members live a good life and enjoy the opportunities that we offer.
But they’re also trained, skilled in their specific areas and have all the relevant qualifications and certifications to help people thrive and feel safe. Our safeguarding team ensure best practice. 

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Regulated and rated "Good by CQC

My Life Legacy is regulated by the Care Quality Commission, with our home-care service My Life Support receiving a Good rating in its most recent report. "Staff placed people's wishes, needs and rights at the heart of everything they did... supporting people to have the maximum possible choice, control and independence."

Have your say

Your views make a difference!

If you would like to share your views on any aspect of our service, or to single out an individual member of our team, a group of staff or our entire team for particular praise and recognition, we would like to hear from you.

Read our comments, compliments and complaints policy here

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2 days ago

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🏀🏐 GET ACTIVE TUESDAYS! 🏐🏀Our members have been loving our Get Active Tuesday sessions! 🙌💪We mix things up between basketball and netball, giving everyone the opportunity to learn and practise skills and rules from both sports 🏀🏐There’s been plenty of energy, teamwork and lots of fun as we develop skills including passing, shooting, dribbling and moving into space, while learning how to work together as a team.It’s been fantastic to see everyone supporting, encouraging and cheering each other on, building confidence and trying new things along the way. 👏❤️But most importantly, there have been lots of smiles, laughter and a real sense of achievement! 😊We love seeing our members getting active, learning new skills, making choices and working together…….showing just how much can be achieved when we support one another 🌟Well done everyone! Keep moving, keep learning and keep having fun 🏀🏐💪#GetActive #GetActiveTuesdays #Basketball #Netball #Teamwork #BuildingConfidence #Inclusion #ActiveTogether #LearningNewSkills #MyLifeLegacy ... See MoreSee Less
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4 days ago

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It’s the one you wait for every Halloween. 🎃 👻💀👻💀🎃🎃🎃The Haunted Ranch and the curse of Dracula. 👍SAVE the DATEThis year Wednesday 28 October 6pm until 9pm. Includes:😱Scary maze🍰The forbidden feast😈Minions and monsters🪩Disco fun in our indoor arena 🧑‍🌾Scarecrow making📿Lasso the animals🏹Archery 👢Cowboy boot throwingAnd so much more.Perfect for the whole family. Tickets on eventbright- link to follow. ... See MoreSee Less
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4 days ago

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🐴☕ TEA WITH A PONY! ☕🐴Come and join us for a lovely afternoon of ponies, tea, cake and good company! 💕Tea with a Pony is a wonderful, fully accessible event with animal-assisted activities, bringing back happy memories and creating special moments for older people, including those living with dementia, their carers and families. 🐴❤️📅 Thursdays: 17th September • 15th October • 19th November • 17th December⏰ 1:30pm–3:00pm📍 Thompson House Equestrian Centre, Pepper Lane, Standish, Wigan, WN6 0PP💷 Just £5 per person carers go FREE!Enjoy a cuppa and delicious cake from the Stable Door Café while spending time with our lovely ponies. 🫖🍰🐴📞 Book: 01257 676003📧 Email: [email protected]All funds raised will continue to support the charity. 💗We’d love you to join us! Please share this post and help us spread the word. 🥰#TeaWithAPony #MyLife #Wigan #Standish #DementiaSupport #AnimalAssistedActivities #CommunityEvents #CharityEvent ... See MoreSee Less
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4 days ago

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🐾🐶 THE DOG SHOW SCHEDULE IS HERE! 🐶🐾It’s nearly time for a fantastic fun-filled day for the whole family! ❤️📅 Sunday 27th September⏰ 11:00am – 4:00pm📍 Indoor Arena, Thomson House Equestrian Centre, Pepper Lane, WN6 0PPWe’ve got 15 fabulous classes across two rings, with something for every kind of dog! 🏆🐕🐾 RING 11️⃣ Best Pedigree2️⃣ Prettiest Bitch3️⃣ Child Handler (10 years & under)4️⃣ Golden Oldie (8 years & over)5️⃣ Best Rescue6️⃣ Dog with Own Disability7️⃣ Best Conditioned8️⃣ Fancy Dress🐾 RING 29️⃣ Best Crossbreed🔟 Handsomest Dog1️⃣1️⃣ Teen Handler (11–15 years)1️⃣2️⃣ Best Puppy (under 1 year)1️⃣3️⃣ Waggiest Tail1️⃣4️⃣ Dog the Judge Would Most Like to Take Home1️⃣5️⃣ Best Trick🏆 And then it’s time for the FINALE SUPREME DOG OF THE DAY! 🏆🎖️ Rosettes & prizes for class winners☕ Café open all day🐴 Shetland pony walking 1pm–2pm🛍️ Trade stands🐾 Loads of fun for everyone!💷 Entry: £3 per class online or book on the day / £4 per class.🎟️ Book your classes online:mylifedogshow.eventbrite.co.uk⁠ �Bring your family, bring your friends and, of course, bring your four-legged stars! 🐶❤️🐾 Good luck to all our amazing dogs we can’t wait to see you please share! 🙏 #DogShow #FamilyFun #DogLovers #Wigan #Standish #MyLife #SupremeDogOfTheDay #DogFriendly #FamilyDayOut #DogCompetition ... See MoreSee Less
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6 days ago

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Due to BIG demand we are hosting our first indoor General CAR BOOT sale.SUNDAY 25 October - 10am until 2pmVenue: My Life, Thompson House Equestrian Centre, Pepper Lane, Standish, WN6 0PP CLEAR the CLUTTER before Christmas Anything goes - clothes- household goods - pet supplies - furniture - toys - prams and more - toiletries- gifts - old and new welcome. Bring your table and be prepared for browsers galore. Set up at 9am doors open 10am. Stalls £10 Businesses £15Book via eventbright click the link ⬇️ mylifegeneralcarboot.eventbrite.co.uk/Loads of parking £1 per carCafe on site selling hot and cold food and drinks. ... See MoreSee Less
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1 week ago

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🍕🍂 LITTLE CHEFS! – PIZZA + AUTUMN CRUMBLE 🍎🧁Calling all little chefs! 👩‍🍳👨‍🍳 Come along for a fun-filled morning or afternoon of pizza making and delicious autumn crumble! 🍕🥧📅 Saturday 26th September⏰ 10am–12pm or 1pm–3pm💷 £6 per child📍 My Life, Thompson House Equestrian Centre, Pepper Lane, Standish, Wigan, WN6 0PPA brilliant opportunity for little ones to get creative, get messy and enjoy making their own tasty treats! ❤️🎟️ BOOK YOUR PLACE:littlechefsmylife.eventbrite.co.ukSpaces are limited, so don’t miss out! 🍕🍎✨ ... See MoreSee Less
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1 week ago

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🐾🐶 THE DOG SHOW SCHEDULE IS HERE! 🐶🐾It’s nearly time for a fantastic fun-filled day for the whole family! ❤️📅 Sunday 27th September⏰ 11:00am – 4:00pm📍 Indoor Arena, Thomson House Equestrian Centre, Pepper Lane, WN6 0PPWe’ve got 15 fabulous classes across two rings, with something for every kind of dog! 🏆🐕🐾 RING 11️⃣ Best Pedigree2️⃣ Prettiest Bitch3️⃣ Child Handler (10 years & under)4️⃣ Golden Oldie (8 years & over)5️⃣ Best Rescue6️⃣ Dog with Own Disability7️⃣ Best Conditioned8️⃣ Fancy Dress🐾 RING 29️⃣ Best Crossbreed🔟 Handsomest Dog1️⃣1️⃣ Teen Handler (11–15 years)1️⃣2️⃣ Best Puppy (under 1 year)1️⃣3️⃣ Waggiest Tail1️⃣4️⃣ Dog the Judge Would Most Like to Take Home1️⃣5️⃣ Best Trick🏆 And then it’s time for the FINALE SUPREME DOG OF THE DAY! 🏆🎖️ Rosettes & prizes for class winners☕ Café open all day🐴 Shetland pony walking 1pm–2pm🛍️ Trade stands🐾 Loads of fun for everyone!💷 Entry: £3 per class online or book on the day / £4 per class.🎟️ Book your classes online:mylifedogshow.eventbrite.co.uk⁠ �Bring your family, bring your friends and, of course, bring your four-legged stars! 🐶❤️🐾 Good luck to all our amazing dogs we can’t wait to see you please share! 🙏 #DogShow #FamilyFun #DogLovers #Wigan #Standish #MyLife #SupremeDogOfTheDay #DogFriendly #FamilyDayOut #DogCompetition ... See MoreSee Less
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At My Life, we're here to support you every step of the way. Whether you have questions, need guidance, or just want to learn more about how we can help, we're always ready to listen.

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